Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Getting Baby to Sleep at Night

By Liz Wiseman

Most new parents have the same common woe. When will baby finally start sleeping more than two hours at a time, so you can get some well-needed sleep yourself?

Unfortunately you can't anticipate when this is going to happen as you often can with other milestones in your baby's life. You have a rough idea when you should expect her first smile, when solid foods should be introduced and when baby will be able to sit up unassisted. The one thing nobody can tell you with any accuracy is when you expect your child to give you that first good night's sleep.

Starting to developing healthy sleep habits is a very important step, and should be started from day one. There is of course an initial period of learning baby's signs, but it won't take long at all before you will recognize and know the different signals she displays before it's time for bed.

Once baby reaches about two weeks of age, it's time to start helping her to distinguish the difference between day and night. This is the first step to begin developing her sleep schedule. During daytime hours, take advantage of play time or singing using your normal tone of voice. Don't stop yourself from daytime tasks. Baby needs to distinguish and grow accustomed to the variety of noises around him during the day.

If your baby wakes at night, it's necessary to reverse the routine. Dimming the lights, reducing noise and other sources of stimulation are all necessary steps in teaching baby that night time hour are quiet. Try to keep a hushed voice, as well as not providing playfulness or animation, and he will soon make the connection that daytime hours are for being awake just as he will connect night with quiet time and sleeping.

Bedtime routines play a very important part in your quest to getting a bit more sleep. One thing that often helps is leaving bath time until right before bed. The warm water can be very soothing to your little one, as can the entire bathing process. Sometimes however, you may notice your baby getting too excited during bath time, which defeats the purpose of a calming experience. If this is the case with your little one, it might be a better idea to chance this to a morning ritual instead. Establishing new bedtime rituals such as soft music or story time may also help with this transition.

Outside of routine, many babies have challenges when it comes to calming themselves to fall asleep and there are different thoughts how to best help baby accomplish this.

One technique that has worked for many parents is the crying down method. This is something that can be tried once baby reaches approximately the 6 weeks old mark. Once you have checked and are sure your baby is not hungry and the other usual issues have been taken care of, you may want to try letting your baby cry a little until she calms down on her own. Starting with 5-10 minutes is fine, but if your baby is over-tired or over-excited this may take up to 20 minutes to achieve. Sometimes it's difficult to ignore the crying, but try to wait the 5-10 minutes before you go into baby's room. This procedure can be repeated for as long as it takes for baby to fall asleep on her own without the crying.

If you think that it would be a little tough to let such a young baby cry itself out, there are other techniques that may be better for you. For example, many parents prefer to pay closer attention to clues that indicate baby is ready to fall asleep, meaning bedtime may vary from night to night. Other parents may begin by lying down with baby and touching and talking to baby to provide comfort. Over time, the parent starts to provide less comforting interaction and moves further away, weaning the baby from the need to have the parent nearby to fall asleep.

No matter what way you choose to approach it, babies are precious to their parents, but sleep is needed to properly care for them. With some handy tips and a lot of patience a pattern will eventually allow everyone to get a good night's sleep. - 16036

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